Soon after we started our adoption journey and learned there were so many waiting children in China, we decided to drop our gender and age criteria and to be open to a waiting child. We didn't make any preparations to the bedroom, which would be our child's, because there were too many possibilities..... color and decor would be vastly different depending on the child.
Once we found our daughter on our agency's special need list and were matched, I began polling neighborhood girls around her age about their preferred colors. Hot pink seemed to be the favorite! We chose two Disney shades of pink carried by BEHR - "Pretty as a Princess" and "Sleeping Beauty Pink". This is way too much fun! Jerry now has specks of hot pink on his sneakers (yes, he wore them to work!) and you can see his new blue jean design as well!
I must say I have been so incredibly blessed on this journey as I witnss families who were all set for an infant girl - feel a tug to request a waiting special needs boy and are repainting their pink rooms for their BOY! Others, who had an arsenal of baby clothes, are bringing home a 2, 3, or 4 year old+ and are having fun giving the baby clothes as gifts to folks with infants. The docility to God's plans is truly inspiring. "Whoever welcomes one of these little ones in My Name, welcomes Me." For us the welcome includes painting the walls hot pink!
We've found our daughter! She's our ONE in a Billion!
We have been matched with a lovely special needs six-year old girl living in Wuhan City in Hubei Province, China! Please understand that we started this journey with the intent to adopt a "non-special needs" 12-month old or younger! If you want to make God laugh - tell Him your plans!!!! We see His perfect Wisdom in prompting us to embrace the delightful 6 -year old JunFen as our daugther! What an incredible gift! Our little daughter, JunFen, has a smile that melts our hearts. She seems so wise, funny and resilient for her young age! She is challenged with congenital scoliosis and has repaired cleft lip & palate. It's obvious her physical challenge is not what defines her when you look at her photos and read a bit about her life.
She was found in a park on September 10, 2001. We believe that her mom placed JunFen in a place where she would quickly be found. JunFen was taken by police to Wuhan City Child Welfare Institution. Her DOB is approximated to be September 1, 2001. She was not able to get adequate nutrition as a babe because of her cleft palate. When she was 10 months old she was placed in a foster home where she received the extra TLC she needed to grow "plump" (our translated letter reads) and to thrive. She is described as talkative, energetic, having rich facial expressions and is independent. We hope that we meet all of her biological mom's dreams for her little girl and then some. We also hope to stay in contact with the dear foster family that has nurtured her so wonderfully.
Other things we know about our JunFen -
Favorite activity: playing outside
Favorite toy: doll
Favorite food: fish
She speaks a Southwestern dialect of Mandarin Chinese. Most likely she speakes a Wuhanese dialect at her foster home.
We are over the moon in love with our girl! God is good - we are overwhelmed with gratitude for the gift of JunFen ("June").
We can't wait to bring her home!
Saturday, December 1, 2007
BaBa in Pink
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2 comments:
That was a great post. The pink looks great!
Wow Dad is doing good! congrats on your match!
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