Photos of JunFen at Wuhan Children's Welfare Institute

We've found our daughter! She's our ONE in a Billion!

We have been matched with a lovely special needs six-year old girl living in Wuhan City in Hubei Province, China! Please understand that we started this journey with the intent to adopt a "non-special needs" 12-month old or younger! If you want to make God laugh - tell Him your plans!!!! We see His perfect Wisdom in prompting us to embrace the delightful 6 -year old JunFen as our daugther! What an incredible gift! Our little daughter, JunFen, has a smile that melts our hearts. She seems so wise, funny and resilient for her young age! She is challenged with congenital scoliosis and has repaired cleft lip & palate. It's obvious her physical challenge is not what defines her when you look at her photos and read a bit about her life.

She was found in a park on September 10, 2001. We believe that her mom placed JunFen in a place where she would quickly be found. JunFen was taken by police to Wuhan City Child Welfare Institution. Her DOB is approximated to be September 1, 2001. She was not able to get adequate nutrition as a babe because of her cleft palate. When she was 10 months old she was placed in a foster home where she received the extra TLC she needed to grow "plump" (our translated letter reads) and to thrive. She is described as talkative, energetic, having rich facial expressions and is independent. We hope that we meet all of her biological mom's dreams for her little girl and then some. We also hope to stay in contact with the dear foster family that has nurtured her so wonderfully.

Other things we know about our JunFen -

Favorite activity: playing outside

Favorite toy: doll

Favorite food: fish

She speaks a Southwestern dialect of Mandarin Chinese. Most likely she speakes a Wuhanese dialect at her foster home.

We are over the moon in love with our girl! God is good - we are overwhelmed with gratitude for the gift of JunFen ("June").

We can't wait to bring her home!

Thursday, November 15, 2007

We learn more about our Daughter - so Blessed by "Blessed Kids"!!! The Grandma connection!

This is a photo of JunFen's Grandma who will travel with me (June's mom) to China to bring our gal home. It's amazing to find out that a foster Grandma has been such a part of our gal's life in China...another "red thread'.

A dear woman adopting a special needs child through our agency let me know that I ought to have the Chinese documents on our daughter translated - that she had some Chinese friends look at the documents on her child, and they found so much more info and details on her son that were not translated in her English document.

I contacted "Angel" Adele at Blessed Kids (http://www.blessedkids.com/) and used her translation services. What treasures were found in a few pages of our daughter's documents! Here are a few:

- Our daughter was found at an aquarium park in the Jiang'an District of Wuhan City. This aquarium was famous for holding a rare fresh water porpose from the Yangtze river.

- "Jun" was the first name given to every child who was found in the month of September. The second part of her name "Fen" was given to her to "convey our wishes that she will send forth sweet fragrance like flowers and that she will grow up healthy." (What a precious wish!)

- JunFen would smile occasionally at age 3 months, even though she had a terrible time with her feeding because of her cleft palate!

- We learned of the affection and concern the orphanage had for our girl..."in order for little Junfen to get better care, we sent her to a foster family...".

- At one year of age - "if people played with her, she would smile or laugh..."

- This is hysterical...got to love the translation.... "When she was one year old and 4 months ...She had a strong personalit , and sometimes put on a fierce and malicious expression to try to frighten the adults. When you asked her if she was full, she would pat her stomach and smile..."

- When she was two years old..."she could make people happy."

- When she was 3 years old she began to attend kindergarten (daycare???)...she liked to RUN instead of walk (oh, what a trooper - with her scoliosis and all!!!); she would help her foster mom with simple housework, such as cleaning floors (..at 3 years of age!!!), She would say "Please take a seat (foster), Grandma" or "Please drop into visit us tomorrow". She would take initiative to greet others....(at 3-years of age - I have a diplomat in the making!)

- When she was 4 years old, she could ride a child's tricycle (this little one refuses to be limited by her sn!).

- This I love - ANOTHER similarity to her BaBa..."Whatever she does, she does it carefully and seriously"....and get this...."She always puts the peels into the garbage cans whenever she finishes the fruit!" My little neat freak - just like Daddy!

- Here's another quality: "She respects the elderly and loves little ones. When her foster grandma was ill, she would serve Grandma with tea or water and pound her back and waist gently, just like a grown-up." (I have a little saint for a daughter!!)

- She recites nursery rhymes like "A Cute Rabbit" and does "gymnastic movements" while singing (another trait /gift of Daddy)!

- "She is thirsty for knowledge and will ask questions whenever she has any. She likes to play all the games that children her age like to play."

- She can feed herself using chopsticks. (Imagine a 3 foot tall girl getting her own meals - she's amazing). The foods she likes are as follows... (please send me recipes!!!!)

  • spare rib soup with lotus shoots


  • fish


  • fried chicken drumsticks


  • braised pork cauliflower


  • braised pork with lettuce


  • soy bean products


  • steamed bread


  • soybean milk


  • steamed dumplings


  • hot and dry noodles


  • eggs


  • Tremella soup


  • Wa Ha Ha ( a brand name for a children's drink in China)

The love and affection the foster family and orphanage director have for this little gal is evident. We hope to honor the wonderful attributes they have instilled in our daughter and to raise her to have great pride and affection about her childhood in China. We can't wait to start our family life together, JunFen!



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5 comments:

Sharon said...

She is such a beauty! Congratulations on your daughter.

Shirlee McCoy said...

I saw your post on the Bethany Discussion boards RE the five-year-old with albinism. I wanted you to know that there is at least one family who would willingly adopt her.

God has a family for each of these precious children. Let's continue to pray that each soon finds her forever home!

BTW, I am adding you to my prayer list. I'm excited to read about the journey of a family who is adopting an older child. That is exactly what my husband and I have always intended to do!

Blessings!

The luckiest mommy in the world said...

Oh reading your post gave me shivers. I am soooooooo happy for you guys and your daughter.

When we were in China adopting Olivia, we had the privelage to go to the orphanage. Everyone was fussing over all the new borns and infants there, not me. I begged the director to bring me upstairs to see the older kids. That was it!!! I came down in tears and have never forgot the moment since. We always thought we we go back and get another baby, not anymore. Our hearts are now 100% with the older children (well except for the 200% that Olivia is occupying). If we are lucky enough to go back and adopt another beautiful child from China, it will be an older one.

I'll be stalking your journey **grin**

Deb
(Olivia's lucky mom)

AmyO said...

Congrats & best wishes on your trip!

Mary said...

Hi there! This is Mary (One Blessed Family on RQ) -- I even have your blog saved to my favourites. :-)

My best friend got home last night with their 6 year old from ChangDe, so they spent their entire time in ChangSha. Her blog is www.youbelong.net/kooncefamily

We will be praying for an LOA soon for you as well!!!

Mary
mama to Lydia (age 7, a. 11/06, Nanjing), Gwen (bio, age 5), Sam (age 3, waiting in Changzhou) and Phoebe (bio, due 12/07)